With some of you it will be the final thirty seconds and perhaps a few of you will make it beyond 3 minutes. Orgasm for most boys during their first intercourse though occurs very rapidly. If you haven’t already applied a condom to that erection it is time to get with it. If the boy’s proud member has shrunk a bit from anxiety you can quickly bring it back to full erection with your hand before rolling that raincoat into place. I wouldn’t suggest using your mouth at this time as you are likely to experience a great gush and his erection will quickly become soft again. While we covered how to properly apply a condom in an earlier chapter, this is such an important subject that we will go over it once again.
Applying A Condom:
Unless you know that the two of you are ready to have a baby be sure to apply a condom. Also apply a condom if you are not in a long term, safe monogamous relationship. If this warning is not enough, take another look at the section on STD’s.
First Time Position:
For your first time, the position that I would suggest is the female dominant position with the girl on top. From this position the girl will be able to control the entry and the depth of penetration.
As the girl you should take hold of the boys erection and enter it into your vagina as slowly as you need to. A girl is often tight her first couple of times and a hard penis being rammed in quickly can be uncomfortable. Also with the girl in control the boy wont need to stumble around looking for the vaginal entry. If during his attempt to penetrate you the boy is having difficulty getting in the door, he may go soft. If that happens just stroke his penis a few times and it should quickly come back to full erection.
Orgasm:
As a boy you will most assuredly have an orgasm. Since this is your first time you may have it in a matter of seconds. If that occurs, i nstead of fretting over it the two of you just relax in each other’s arms for a while and then with a little help from your honey you will assuredly get fully erect again. The second time around the anxiety will be less and you should last much longer. Some boys like to masturbate ahead of time, which may or may not help. Some couples use mutual-masturbation, as part of the foreplay but again almost all boys will take a little time to recover between ejaculations. Following your orgasms hold each other tight as you kiss and fall asleep or rest up for round two.
If the two of you have taken the time and done things correctly I offer my sincere Congratulations, for the two of you have taken pleasure in a beautiful and memorable experience!
The loss of ones virginity is an experience that is going to remain with you for the rest of your life. This should be a pleasurable experience that includes more than the boy entering his penis and shooting his load. Take a bit of time viewing the website and reading the posts, learn a bit about the male and female anatomy, erogenous zones and foreplay. Take the Doing it Right quiz to see just how much you have learned. Remember, this is a fun and informative quiz for virgins and “old pros” alike.
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