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Learning About Masturbation
    
While masturbation almost comes naturally for boys, girls do not tend to masturbate as automatically. Girls learn to masturbate in a number of ways. A girl may first experience a feeling of excitement while riding a bike or sliding down the banister. A girl may one day just put her finger against the clitoris and discover that it feels good. Suddenly with a “wow” she may find that by rubbing in this area she achieves and amazing orgasm. With this wonderful new knowledge at hand, some girls will repeatedly bring themselves to orgasm in a single day. Other girls may repeatedly bring themselves to the point of orgasm and then stop. Through this repeated touching they may find that each time they start again it takes a lighter touch and less time to near the point of climax. Continuing the waiting and then touching will soon bring them to an overwhelming orgasm.

Learning How To Masturbate:
When it comes to female masturbation techniques you fill find them almost unlimited. The method that is most enjoyable for one woman will not necessarily be the most enjoyable for another. The best way to find out which techniques satisfy you the most is to experiment. There are many pleasurable ways to masturbate from fingers to the showerhead and all types of sex toys. For those that are just now starting to experiment with masturbation the best place to start is with your own fingers. As you learn more about your body you may want to move on to trying some sex toys in combination with your fingers. For now though let your fingers do the walking. 

  Completely in the nude, lie on your back in the bed and start to gently stroke you body with your fingers. Ever so softy, begin at your face so that if feels almost like a tickle; Move your fingers across your cheeks from one side to the other; continue gently stroking down your neck to your breasts. Lightly run a finger around your nipples, caress your breast with your hand and then move on to the other breast. If you prefer, you can use both hands caressing and softly rubbing the nipple of each breast with one of your hands. You are in no hurry so take lots of time and enjoy the sensual sensation of stimulating your breasts. Continue to slowly move your fingers down your body and as you find areas that give you sensual pleasure spend time enjoying the sensation before moving on.
  Now continue to leisurely and lovingly move your finger down to your genitals. What a wonderful time to take a beauty mirror and become familiar with every fold and crevice of your genitalia. Not every vulva is the same so you have a wonderful, special package to become familiar with. Familiarity will make your masturbation sessions even more enjoyable.
  Gently separate your labia and examine your clitoris and vaginal opening. Softly stroke your clitoris as you watch in the mirror. Insert a finger into your vagina and see how it feels. This is your special time as each of us may experience a different sensation. Now that you are becoming more familiar with your body lets continue with some more stimulating exploration.
  Using your thumb and forefinger, gently grasp your clitoris and roll it between them. Starting slowly, speed up gradually as you find the pressure and speed that gives you the greatest pleasure. If you prefer, you can use both hands and gently roll the outer lips between the fingers.
  Place two fingers onto your clitoris and move them in a circular motion as you graduate the speed and the position of your fingers.
  Using your middle finger draw circles around your clitoris. Gently tap on your clitoris with your fingers as you experience a different sensation as you circle that magical globe.
  Put some lubricant on your fingers and place one or two inside yourself and move them around and thrust them in and out during this period of wonderful exploration.
  Perhaps you will decide that the music you have selected is to soft and you may decide to put on something with more of a beat. Select whatever music you enjoy listening to most. If the music has more of a beat, you may find yourself keeping beat to the music and this can be very enjoyable. Just as each individual finds that they prefer particular methods of stimulation, each person that masturbates to music will find that they prefer the rhythm of different music.
  Since you are still in a period of experimentation, try different body positions such as standing, sitting, laying on your stomach and kneeling. As you try these different positions repeat the different strokes that you tried while laying on your back. Enjoy your experimentation for this is how you are going to learn what you enjoy and what you don’t. If you haven’t already, in a very short time you will be enjoying some very wonderful orgasms.