Multiple Partners

Women Out Number Men Or Do They?

Yes there are more women then men but the difference isn’t that great when all age groups are combined. A 1997 United Nations report [1] shows that throughout the world women only slightly out number men. So in truth it is probably a good thing that while most men such as myself love and adore women, one is a perfect match for the majority of us.

Now for you truly horny gals, in the US there are more men then women in most age groups up through about the age of 35 (Sorry guys). By age 45 the gals are slightly outnumbering the guys with a ratio of 100 females to 95 males in the 45 – 64 age group. In the 65 plus age group the there are 100 females for 71 males. The ratio continues to climb and by the age of 85 there are 100 women for every 39 men. So while you females can hit on the younger guys, it looks like you really horny males that don’t have a lot of success with the younger women can make some middle age and older ladies really happy, especially those in the 85 and older age group. [2]

About a year prior to my wife death, we had a second residence in an adult community near the city, as our ranch was about 25 miles from the nearest hospital and nursing homes. About one week after her death I was walking back to the apartment and three ladies standing nearby just stood they’re looking me over. Women I didn’t even know were dropping off cookies and meals. While it may have been in my head, I felt like a piece of meat and couldn’t wait to get away from there. Within a week of Anne’s death I moved back into our ranch house. Now some men would jump at that opportunity to have woman crawling all over them but we had been a couple for 42 years and it was going to take some time before I was ready to tread new waters. ”Now that it has been a while since her death, maybe I should move back to that adult community to help level the playing field for some of those women!”

Forms Of Multi-Partner Relationships:

Polygamy (Bigamy) is the practice of carrying on a concurrent fulltime relationship with more than one partner. The popular usage of this term is, one husband having two or more wives at the same time (Polygamy) or one wife having two or more husbands at the same time (Polyandry). Polygamy is not cheating in the sense that the other partner(s) are aware of the relationships. The term polygamy (bigamy) does not mean group sex, casual promiscuous sex, or even any sex at all. For those adults that choose to experience this life style it may not be easy as in the United States and much of the world, bigamy is a criminal offense. Reportedly some partners get around this law by only publicly registering one wife or husband while living in a multi-partner relationship.

You don’t need to practice bigamy to have more then one partner in a relationship. Some couples practice other forms of multiple partner life styles on a frequent or infrequent basis.

Ménage a Trois (Threesome) is where a man has sex with two women or a woman has sex with two men. A popular definition for ménage a trois is a household of three and arrangement where a married couple and a lover of one of them live together while sharing sexual relations. Now, for many of us guy’s one woman is about all we can handle, but if you are “up” to it and it is safe and consenting, enjoy!

Swinging (Wife Swapping) can take place under a variety of arrangements. Swingers are couples that become sexually involved with other couples. Some of the most common arrangements are:

Open Swinging involves having sex in the same room and possibly in the same bed with your spouse or partner and another couple. With a heterosexual relationship the couple will switch partners. In a bi-sexual relationship the males could end up in one bed and the females in another. In an open swinging situation, there is no question of what was said or done for the couples did everything together. Voyeurs and exhibitionist that enjoy watching their mate while having their own sex, find this practice to be a good choice.

Closed Swinging involves couples switching partners and the couples having sex alone. Closed swinger’s say that this arrangement gives them the opportunity to take pleasure in the experience without the distraction of their regular partners being in the same room at the same time. Without distractions, the couple can act out their fantasies as they choose without being watched by their regular partner.

Soft Swinging involves entertainment and foreplay with another couple prior to having sexual intercourse with your own partner. Some couples enjoy the excitement of being sexually involved with another couple but prefer for their intercourse to be a monogamous relationship. Some individuals get their start into the swinging life style by starting out with Soft Swinging and working up from there.

Orgy refers to sexual interaction in a group room or area among several men and women, men only or women only. Otherwise a particular orgy can be heterosexual, bisexual or homosexual.

*Group Room or Mat Room is a room for group sex at a swinging party or orgy and is generally furnished with wall-to-wall mattresses.

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