Tips For The Ladies On Online Dating

For the modern woman, nothing compares to the thrill of typing away sweet nothings to a person you’ve never even met. Yes, cyber dating has indeed become a veritable trend. Although it is still quite miles away from replacing the movie watching, restaurant eating kind of dating, it has become a common and preferred practice among many. Some may say that nothing compares to actually physically seeing and touching your date in front of you, but online dating supporters counter-argue that nothing compares to the thrill of mystery. Read more

Tips to Free Dating

What you can expect from free dating sites?

There are a number of free online dating sites and it can become confusing as to the use of them. How can I decide if they will work out for me? Read more

5 Tips For Better Lovemaking

7 Lovemaking Mistakes that Couples Make and How To Avoid them

Did you know that people who try to spice up their lovemaking, often make their experiences LESS fulfilling? It’s true.

Over the years, I’ve seen couples make the same mistakes over and over again, when trying to improve their love lives, and I’d like to teach you how to overcome and avoid these problems. Here are the 7 lovemaking mistakes. Are you making them?

Mistake #1: Feeling scared or embarrassed to talk about trying new things

Have you ever had an idea to spice up your lovemaking but were afraid of what your partner may think? Believe it or not, in 90% of cases, your partner would LOVE to try something new, too, but they’re just as uncomfortable or embarrassed about bringing it up as you are.

And you don’t need to introduce whips, chains or a third person. That’s nonsense! There are hundreds of ways to bring variety to your passionate play that aren’t crude or dangerous and that your partner is sure to be comfortable with.

Mistake #2: Trying to convince the partner to make love

If your lover is tired or not in the mood for sex, trying to convince or persuade them to have sex almost NEVER works. On the other hand, when a person is sexually aroused, their body releases the chemical ‘adrenaline’ into the bloodstream. This chemical is what gives you the energy to make love. So here’s how to arouse them the right way. Yes, even if they’re tired.

Ladies: Want to get him in the mood? Give him fellatio or manually stroke him between 9 – 10 in the morning. This is when his testosterone levels are highest for the day. For better results, also wear something sexy or nothing at all. He’ll like that.

Lads:
Deep passionate kisses are one of the biggest ‘turn-ons’ for women. Looking in her eyes and touching her face while kissing her can really increase arousal, too. And give some attention to her neck––it will drive her wild. But don’t rush this! Spend quality time building up her arousal with your sensual kisses.

Mistake #3: Neglecting foreplay to enjoy intercourse sooner

People in a relationship (especially men) tend to neglect foreplay so they can begin to enjoy intercourse sooner, but did you know that foreplay is actually said to intensify orgasms?

That’s right. If you kiss, caress and touch longer, you can make your lovemaking even more satisfying. So SLOW DOWN. Take your time. If you want to make it even better, tease your partner in a playful way. (This works like crazy.)

If you find something that they really enjoy, stop doing it, move back, and then do it again later. The more you pull back and push forward, the more they’ll want it. And the more intense their experience will be. There are many games you can play to heighten this anticipation, too.

Mistake #4: Using toys or porn to make your lovemaking better

When sex hits a rough patch, many couples (men especially) think that a video, some plastic or vibrating thingy will instantly takes things through the roof.

Wrong!… While toys can certainly have their place in your lovemaking repertoire, relying on them can be extremely dangerous. These outside sources of pleasure can quickly make lovemaking even less fulfilling.

Why? Because you don’t want your partner to end up looking forward to their plastic toy for pleasure more than they look forward to pleasure with you, do you? Couples need to first fully discover how to please all their spouses’ body parts before introducing other elements. Use them as a spice, not the main course.

Mistake #5: Trying to make the woman orgasm ONLY from intercourse

Men often feel “unmanly” if they can’t satisfy their woman from intercourse. But what they need to understand is that a large number of women can’t achieve orgasm through normal lovemaking.
Just knowing this takes the pressure off men completely. Now there’s no need to get upset when their women don’t reach orgasm. Instead, men should master the art of cunnilingus (going down on a woman).

Mistake #6: Trying to “finish” at the same time

Simultaneous orgasms are quite overrated. Instead of aiming for one orgasm that you share together, focus completely on the woman’s needs first. Hold off from the positions you find most enjoyable and instead make love in ways that are most pleasurable
for your lady, until she is completely satisfied. That way you have a much greater chance of both climaxing.

Mistake #7: Sticking to a “set routine” too often

You know the drill. You take your clothes off, insert part A into part B, and, within a few minutes, the routine is over. Sound familiar?

No matter how fantastic lovemaking can be, there’s no denying it can get boring over the years.
And the reason is because lovemaking in its basic act is always the same. But the danger is letting it get “too routine,” which can begin to affect your relationship.

The BEST WAY to protect your love life and precious connection with your partner is to have lots of new lovemaking ideas ready at your disposal.

That’s the secret.

In fact, when you have an abundance of NEW tips and techniques ready, you’ll enjoy more hot, steamy and passionate lovemaking, discover newfound enthusiasm to make love and even make love more often.

About the Author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of 500 Lovemaking Tips, a book full of ways to spice up your lovemaking, adding more passion, pleasure and intimacy to your experience. To read more, visit: 500
Lovemaking Tips and Secrets

What Men Like In A Date – Get Into His Head!

In the game of dating it is not always easy to figure out what a man is thinking. Whether you are involved in online dating or even offline dating, the issues are still usually the same. If you want to find the man of your dreams, it helps to understand what he may really be thinking. Here are a few tips as to what men think about dating.

Men Fear Fulfilling a Woman’s Dreams

When men think of dating, one thing they fear is having to fulfill a woman’s dreams. In fact, when he listens to her, he listens to what she wants in life and what her hopes and dreams happen to be. Sometimes he may want to be the one to give that to her. Sure he will be happy if she is going to fulfill her dreams on her own, but he doesn’t always want to be the one that ends up doing this himself.

Men Have Feelings Too

Yes, men have feelings too and they often show them – it’s just that women don’t know where to look. While they do deal with feelings, they don’t show them or even feel them in the same way that women do when they are dating. So, you should not be fooled into thinking that a guy doesn’t have feelings. He does and it’s important to know this when you are dating.

Men Don’t Think That Love Is Always Enough

Another thing that men think about dating, both online and offline,is that love is not always enough. While they may feel that they love a woman, he also thinks about his life and where he is going. Women tend to think more about love and they tend to make more decisions that are totally based on love as well. So, even if a guy does feel he loves you when he is dating you, this doesn’t mean he is going to propose soon.

Men Want to Find Feminine Women

While many women think that men want to date a “cool chic”, men are actually looking for women that are feminine. They like finding qualities that their friends don’t have. Some women think that they need to fit in with a guy and his friends when they are dating, but instead what you should do is to let your feminine side show.

Men Look for a Woman Who Believes in Them

When looking for a woman to date a man looks for a woman that believes in them. This is their idea of the perfect date. He gets comfort from the fact that a woman believes in him. It makes him feel much braver and more courageous when he is dating a woman that really believes that he can do something.

Men Concentrate on Him and His Date Having a Great Time

Many women notice that it seems men are paying attention to them on their dates. Well, man look at dating a bit differently. When they are out on a date, they concentrate on one thing which is to have a great time. They are not as great at multi-tasking as women are, so when they focus on one thing, it may seem that they aren’t paying attention. However, it should be flattering, because on the date they are truly focusing in making sure that you have a great time on the date.

Free Online Dating Services

Online dating has become a very popular activity. It has helped to get rid of the uncomfortable factor that might rise up between people who are out on a date. As such, there are dating sites available which offer free online dating services, which cater to all kinds of interest areas and age groups. You have dating services that cater to seniors while there are others for young adults. There are sites for gays and lesbians. As can be imagined, the variety has increased the staying power of these sites and the number of people seeking partners on these dating sites is constantly on the increase.

Looking for free dating services

The best way to search for dating services is by using the various search engines. Once you key in the necessary term, a whole list of sites will be there in front of you. You can select from among the many, and look into them. If you like their services, then you can register yourselves and start online dating. Moreover, you might come across various advertisements regarding such free sites, either on the internet or local newspaper.

Customized Dating

The great part about online dating is that it can be customized for the benefit of the user. Some dating sites offer you the choice of pursuing dating seriously and the opportunity to meet the person that you have been talking to; while there are others who let you have a bit of fun. You can interact with a person with like minded interests and then move on to the next one. There is absolutely no obligation to continue the dating ritual with the same person. Thus, dating services are available in their customized format.

The people who use online dating

Quite a number of people are apprehensive about using free online dating services. This is because of the limitations of the ‘trust factor’. Can you trust the person that you are chatting with on the internet? The answer is you really don’t have to take anything said on the net seriously. The people who are part of the free online dating scheme of things are like you and me and are searching for somebody to talk to and if lucky, somebody they can connect with. Moreover, many such people are introverts who are having difficult time finding friends or a partner. These are essentially the kind of people who use free online dating services.

Getting Over a Breakup

It’s only been two months since your relationship ended, and it wasn’t your choice. You’ve analyzed every conversation you ever had with him, and you’ve stayed awake many nights replaying his horrid words that he was ending your relationship. It is often not easy getting over a breakup. We will often wonder how do I learn to trust again. Read more

How To Say I Love You

Remember those words from an old song… “Be sure it’s true when you say I love you, it’s a sin to tell a lie”. The concept of “sin” has lost its meaning for most in our modern era, and even “love” has lost its importance. If you still believe in “falling in love” then you will realize how difficult it is to say, “I love you” in a meaningful way. Three little words that could change your life forever. The words, themselves, have lost their meaning because of overuse especially when it’s not really true or just being used to get sex. Read more

Tips on Finding True Love

Many of us want to believe that love will come to us without having to do anything. While others would like to be loved but they just do not know how to find love. Sometimes, however love can be really a slowpoke. Read more

What is True Love?

At one time we have all asked the question what is true love? The true source of discovering and receiving fulfilling and satisfying loving relationships lies not from seeking love from another person, but rather, love is first found within ourselves. Our own thoughts, expectations and behaviors determine the quality of love we experience in our lives. Read more

Good Sex Comes In All Sizes

From the Flintstones to popular sitcoms such as the King of Queens and Still Standing, overweight men are paired with sexy, slender women. Even Kirstie Alley who starred in that short-lived sitcom Fat Actress has now dropped 50 pounds. By today’s television standards the voluptuous Marilyn Monroe would be considered overweight for Hollywood. Television programming causes humans to be self-conscience of their bodies. In advertisements, girls with zero size waists give society an image that has come to be expected. In return, humans are nervous about jumping into bed with their “not so perfect” figures. Despite what the images are portraying, females and males with imperfect figures can have great sex as well. Read more

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