Getting Over a Breakup

It’s only been two months since your relationship ended, and it wasn’t your choice. You’ve analyzed every conversation you ever had with him, and you’ve stayed awake many nights replaying his horrid words that he was ending your relationship. It is often not easy getting over a breakup. We will often wonder how do I learn to trust again. Read more

How To Say I Love You

Remember those words from an old song… “Be sure it’s true when you say I love you, it’s a sin to tell a lie”. The concept of “sin” has lost its meaning for most in our modern era, and even “love” has lost its importance. If you still believe in “falling in love” then you will realize how difficult it is to say, “I love you” in a meaningful way. Three little words that could change your life forever. The words, themselves, have lost their meaning because of overuse especially when it’s not really true or just being used to get sex. Read more

Tips on Finding True Love

Many of us want to believe that love will come to us without having to do anything. While others would like to be loved but they just do not know how to find love. Sometimes, however love can be really a slowpoke. Read more

What is True Love?

At one time we have all asked the question what is true love? The true source of discovering and receiving fulfilling and satisfying loving relationships lies not from seeking love from another person, but rather, love is first found within ourselves. Our own thoughts, expectations and behaviors determine the quality of love we experience in our lives. Read more

Good Sex Comes In All Sizes

From the Flintstones to popular sitcoms such as the King of Queens and Still Standing, overweight men are paired with sexy, slender women. Even Kirstie Alley who starred in that short-lived sitcom Fat Actress has now dropped 50 pounds. By today’s television standards the voluptuous Marilyn Monroe would be considered overweight for Hollywood. Television programming causes humans to be self-conscience of their bodies. In advertisements, girls with zero size waists give society an image that has come to be expected. In return, humans are nervous about jumping into bed with their “not so perfect” figures. Despite what the images are portraying, females and males with imperfect figures can have great sex as well. Read more

The Mystique of Lingerie

Looking for a sexy gift for your girl that will turn her on and surely rise more than your eyebrows? When a man gives his lover lingerie it will often give her the confidence to act frisky and pose in ways she may not have before. Read more

Be Careful What You Say and Do

In life we make many decisions. The lies we tell and some decisions we make are not the wisest and are bound to lead to trouble. This bit of humor reminds each of us of just how much trouble the decision to cheat on the one we profess to love can come back to haunt us: Read more

Using Our Senses to Increase Sexual Desire

In almost every relationship there comes a time when the passion seems to fade away, and little hope of recovery is in sight. At Ask Uncle Terry I am often asked, “How can we increase the sexual desire in our relationship?” Read more

Double Your Pleasure Double Your Fun

You have one stick of gum and receive another stick of gum from Tina, how many sticks of gum do you have? Does their sum equal the enjoyment of two sticks of gum? Yes. Now, if you have one wife and steal your best friend’s wife does their sum equal the enjoyment of two wives? No. Sticks of gum, apples, oranges and wives, cannot be compared. Grade school should have taught us that monogamy is the best path to a successful relationship. In today’s society though we seem to want more and more and more. Read more

An Old Farts View of Cohabitation

I live in a community that is probably not much different than yours. Within walking distance of my home you find those that are rich or poor but mostly middle class. Some live in trailers, or apartments others live in large beautiful estates while most of us live in comfortable middle class dwellings. Regardless of the socio economic standing within our neighborhood we all have many things in common. Throughout our area I see many broken homes. I see children having children, couples whom have already raised one family now raising their grandchildren or both their children and grandchildren. I see young adults playing house, cohabiting as if they were married yet they have not made a truly serious commitment to each other. Read more