A Lack of Sex In Fantasy Land

My fiancée and I got engaged about two months ago. We’ve been together for about three years total but have only lived together now for one year. To make matters more confusing, one year of our relationship was long distance. At first, when he came back to be with me, we had sex regularly and things were great. Now, when I start to initiate sex, he turns me down. That doesn’t so much bother me as much as the fact that I know he has masturbated in our shower several times in the past month. Read more

Got Milk?

Uncle Terry
I want to know how a vagina looks after a long day of work. I’m asking this because I saw my girlfriend’s vagina and it was like milky around the lips. I thought that maybe she was with another guy and I got curious and she said sometimes it looks like that. I am not sure about it so can you please help me and let me know how it looks. Read more

Unequal Penis Girth

Uncle Terry, My penis girth is not equal, the front knob is 3 inches around and root is 2 inches around, is it normal? Should I contact a doctor? Is there any medicine online I can use? Will it make any problem in my sex life? I am a 21 year old male from Bangladesh. I masturbate 1 to 2 times every day. I have not had sex yet.
Farid Read more

Need Help Fast

About a week ago, my girlfriend and me had our first real sexual encounter. It all started with us lying in her bed after having a couple drinks and fooling around. It was a long drawn out process, but it started with me using my fingers to stimulate her, and then she sucked on me for a little bit, but I did not ejaculate. After about 2 hours of me pleasuring her with my fingers, and her pleasuring me with her mouth, it moved a step further. She got on top of me and inserted my penis into her vagina. It was only inserted once, and only about 2 inches because she was tiny, and I guess I was too large for her. I am worried that because I did not have a condom on, there is a chance of her being pregnant. I did not ejaculate, however I am worried about pre-ejaculation. But it was only inserted one time, and only in about 2 inches. How likely is it that she might be pregnant?
Bill Read more

Games People Play

I have been in a serious relationship with my girlfriend for 4 years now. I love her very much, and I know she loves me; we have lots of fun together and are happy. The only problem is she does not ever want to make love. I know you probably hear that a lot, but I’m not exaggerating, we might have sex once or twice a month, and then sometimes it seems like she does it only to make me happy and I feel guilty. I try and talk with her about it, and ask her what she enjoys but she has trouble talking about sex and says, “It’s just not a big deal to me”. I was hoping you could give me some advice on how to help her enjoy sex more.
Malick Read more

Fantasy or Confusion

Question: Dear Uncle Terry: I’ve always been attracted to females. Plus, I love my wife with all my heart and we’ve been together now for nearly 10 years. But, a few months ago, I saw a program on The Discovery Channel about transsexuals and I now find myself thinking about them all the time in erotic ways. Now I’m worried that I might be gay and I’m completely conflicted over whether I should tell my wife these sexual fantasies. What do you think, Uncle Terry? —Eddie Read more

Judge Judy Where Are You?

Question: Dear Uncle Terry: I am a 22-year old male and the father of two kids from two different girls. One of the girls is now suing me for child support. Do I have to pay it? –Scott

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Corporal Punishment

Question: Uncle Terry, I am a 25-year-old woman and have been a naughty girl. Will you spank me? –Tami Read more

Multiorgasmic Male

Question: Dear Uncle Terry: My girlfriend and I seem to be somewhat backward when it comes to our sex lives. In bed I become insatiable and want to go again and again. My girlfriend, on the other hand, is satisfied after a single time and doesn’t like to prolong things. Should I try to insist on more tenderness, or is that just asking for trouble. –Garcia Read more

Waiting Period For Sex With New Mother

Question: Dear Uncle Terry: I realize this is an old complaint, but since my wife had a baby a few months ago she hasn’t wanted to have sex with me. I know this happens to a lot of women–and I certainly don’t want to put pressure on her–but I’m starting to go nuts! Is there something I can do to speed up the recovery process? I’ll try anything! –Erik Read more

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