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Posted by: UncleTerry on Friday, June 27, 2008 - 07:47 PM
Love&Relationships
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Take a moment and think back to those glorious days when you first fell in love. For some of us it was years in the past and for others just a few months ago. You may have even been in the lust and infatuation stage before you even realized you were in love. You felt giddy, smitten, and were walking on air. Your heart went pitter-patter and your breath was shallow whenever you were around the one you adored. Perhaps you were busy with work, school and other responsibilities, but still you would always catch up later. So deep was that unexplainable admiration that you wanted to spend all your waking hours with your sweetheart. Many of you moved in together so that you would seldom be apart.
For many of you the admiration soon became true love that was followed by a long-term relationship as an unmarried couple and for many it became marriage. Somewhere along the line you may have found yourself getting that extra bedroom or the den ready for a baby carriage. You have become a growing family with growing bills and expanded responsibilities. You come home from work to find a list of honey do’s waiting for you. The cost of living is getting out of hand and filling the gas tank to get to work requires you to work overtime. "So this is marriage?" you relent, with a sigh.
Whether you've been married 6 months, 10 years or 50 years, it doesn't have to mean the honeymoon is over. Think back to the effort you made initially when you were wooing your betrothed. You will get what you give. If you give humdrum, day in day out, that's what you'll get in return. If you give romance and spark, guess what you'll get in return?
Forgot how to do that? No worries. Here are ten suggestions to help jump start your hibernating marriage.
1. Drop off a cup of coffee and an apple to your spouse at work. Don't stay; just say you appreciate the hard work and thought he/she might be ready for a break.
2. Place a note in the sole of his/her shoes "You're my heart and sole."
3. When your spouse gets home from work have a picnic all prepared - in the bedroom. Picnic blanket spread across the bed, beverage of choice, shrimp, strawberries, and bread. If the kids are around, have a pizza waiting for them and tell them that the parents need some time to discuss some things.
4. If you live in a winter climate, take your wife's/husband's clothes (assuming it's not a suit or dress) and put them in the dryer first thing in the morning. Getting dressed into warm snuggly clothes in the dead of winter is a real treat.
5. Leave a love note in the purse or briefcase.
6. Participate in one of your spouse's activities that you'd rather not. Go fishing with him, go to a play with her, walk the golf course with him, take her shopping - just try it. Even if it's not the time of your life, the fact that you wanted to do something he/she enjoys will speak volumes.
7. Go for a walk and for gosh sakes hold hands!
8. Have some sexy pictures taken of you. Even if you use your own digital camera in your spouse's favorite outfit (or lack of one!) Most cameras are equipped with self timers. Leave it in the lunch box or have it waiting in the car with a note "meet me for lunch at noon at xxx."
9. Switch chores. If you don't normally take out the trash, do it this week. If it's usually her job to do laundry, just do a load.
10. Compliment your spouse often. Don't say it if you don't mean it, but there is always something positive you can say. Whether, "I appreciate you working hard every day for us." Or "That dinner was fantastic." "That outfit makes you look really hot." Whatever - so long as you're sincere and you keep them coming!
Commitment to the one we love is precious. At sometime all of us can use a jumpstart to get our relationship back on track. Don’t walk away frustrated but instead do something to get back those days when you felt so deeply in love. Perhaps these tips will give you a start. Your random acts of kindness need not be time consuming nor expensive. Just remember, a little goes a long, long way in the name of love!
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Posted by: UncleTerry on Wednesday, May 21, 2008 - 12:00 AM
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by Bidz Dela Cruz
Gone are the days when sex is discussed in hushed tones and mouthing words with sexual and sensual connotation is looked down upon. The sanctity of marriage and the bedchamber is fast becoming a thing of the past. It is not uncommon nowadays to hear conversations that in the past were considered illicit and actuations, which were then considered immoral, have become widely acceptable. It seems that everywhere we focus our attention smut or pornography stares us in the face, assaulting our morals and inhibitions.
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Posted by: UncleTerry on Tuesday, May 20, 2008 - 07:02 PM
Parenting
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by Jane Maria
The teenage years can be particularly trying for parents, as children become aware of their sexuality for the first time in their lives. Raging hormones and a newfound sense of independence may induce teens to act in ways that are irresponsible. The worst repercussion of this could be a teenage pregnancy.
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Posted by: UncleTerry on Friday, May 16, 2008 - 10:32 AM
Love&Relationships
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When the passion fades away from a relationship some people mistakenly think that they have fell out of love and this happens because of the false ideas that the media fed those people with about love. Healthy relationships are the ones who move on from the passionate stage to the compassionate stage where the main pillars holding the relationship becomes intimacy and respect instead of passion.
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Read full article: 'Falling Out Of Love' (2050 bytes more)
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Posted by: UncleTerry on Friday, May 16, 2008 - 10:27 AM
Love&Relationships
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As you might have noticed, there are some people who find it very hard to say "I love you". Most of these people are keen to say it when they mean it. Way back when i began dating my now long-term lover, he would leave a message on the voice mail which would always end with "have a nice day." He would murmur words that suggested that he wanted to say the three little words but he would stop. He was subconsciously dying to say the words but for some reason he could not utter them even after six months of dating exclusively. I found this behavior disturbing since it was outside my dating norm.
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Read full article: 'How To Say I Love You' (2603 bytes more)
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Posted by: UncleTerry on Saturday, May 10, 2008 - 12:47 AM
SexualHealth
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An article in the Telegraph reports that “Beautiful people are healthier and live longer…”. You may or may not agree but the article is certainly worth a read. You can check out the article at: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/earth/main.jhtml?xml=/earth/2008/05/07/scisymmetry107.xml
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Posted by: UncleTerry on Saturday, May 10, 2008 - 12:45 AM
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A story in BBC news reports that the UK has one of the worst reputations for Young adults in Europe deliberately binge on drink and drugs to improve their sex lives, research suggests.
The UK has one of the worst reputations for binge drinking and underage sex but there are striking similarities between countries, a study found.
A third of 16 to 35-year-old men and 23% of women questioned said they drank to increase their chance of sex.
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/7389980.stm
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Posted by: UncleTerry on Wednesday, April 30, 2008 - 11:47 PM
SexualHealth
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ScienceDaily (Apr. 29, 2008) — A research group supported by the National Institutes of Health (NIH) has uncovered a new route for attacking the human immunodeficiency virus (HIV) that may offer a way to circumvent problems with drug resistance. In findings published April 28 in the online edition of the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, the researchers report that they have blocked HIV infection in the test tube by inactivating a human protein expressed in key immune cells.
See full article here
http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2008/04/080428175345.htm
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Posted by: UncleTerry on Friday, April 18, 2008 - 09:50 AM
SexualHealth
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Pound-for-pound, it's the strongest organism ever. This mighty beast is the gonorrhea bacterium – the strongest creature alive. These tiny creatures can pull with a force equal to 100,000 times their body weight – as though a human could drag 10 million kilos.
Many bacteria produce filaments called pili. These are a hundred times as long as they are wide and up to ten times longer than the bacterium itself. They can also contract. Scientists knew that Neisseria gonorhoeae bacteria use "type four" pili to crawl along a surface and to attach to cells and infect them.
What they didn't know was that these bacteria can bundle pili together to exert long, strong pulls. Michael Sheetz and colleagues at Columbia University in New York put the bacteria in a field of tiny gel "pillars" and measured the amount the bacteria could bend them as a way of measuring the force of their pull.
See Full Article:
http://www.newscientist.com/channel/life/dn13666-sexually-transmitted-bug-is-the-strongest-organism.html
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Posted by: UncleTerry on Wednesday, April 16, 2008 - 11:52 AM
Masturbation
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Men could reduce their risk of developing prostate cancer through regular masturbation, researchers suggest.
Australian researchers questioned over 1,000 men who had developed prostate cancer and 1,250 who had not about their sexual habits. They found those who had ejaculated the most between the ages of 20 and 50 were the least likely to develop the cancer. Men who ejaculated more than five times a week were a third less likely to develop prostate cancer later in life.
See full story: http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/3072021.stm
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Posted by: UncleTerry on Wednesday, April 16, 2008 - 11:46 AM
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Fortunately, some have made history by letting us know just how much sex is possible, seemingly dedicated to testing the very upper limits of human humping. Such as ...
The most frequently asked question among Cracked readers has to be, "Is it possible I'm having too much sex?"
The lead singer of Three Dog Night took sex where it was never meant to go.
Gene Simmons can claim he's slept with a bajillion women.
Read this interesting story on what the author bills as history’s 7 most astounding sexual resumes.
http://www.cracked.com/article_16120_historys-7-most-astounding-sexual-resumes.html
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Posted by: UncleTerry on Thursday, April 03, 2008 - 06:24 PM
KinkySex
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What goes on in the world of Master and slave? What are some of the rules a slave might live under? As you will read in this example the rules may be broad. In addition to these rules there will often be written contracts within the Master/slave relationship.
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Read full article: 'Examples Of Slave Rules' (2098 bytes more)
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Posted by: UncleTerry on Thursday, April 03, 2008 - 06:13 PM
KinkySex
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A variety of Master/slave relationships exist. These arrangements can be over a short period of time or even a lifetime commitment. Many types of Master/slave relationships exist. A few examples of these relationships are Daddy/boy, Mother/girl, Master/human slave and Master/animal slave.
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Read full article: 'Types Of Masters - Slave Relationships' (3367 bytes more)
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Posted by: UncleTerry on Tuesday, April 01, 2008 - 10:31 AM
KinkySex
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Sexual Slavery: as defined by the 1926 Slavery Convention and the 1953 Protocol amending that convention, refers to “the status or condition of a person over whom any or all of the powers attaching to the right of ownership are exercised, including sexual access through rape or other forms of sexual violence.” The Statue of the ICC included the trafficking of women and children in its definition of enslavement.
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Posted by: UncleTerry on Wednesday, March 19, 2008 - 09:34 PM
Foreplay
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Erogenous zones are particular body parts of the male and female that is highly sensitive to sexual arousal. It is amazing that such a large part of your body can be so sensual during intimacy with your sweetie. Some areas are extremely sensitive and the stimulation of these areas is definitely a precursor for good sex. Locating and stimulating your partner’s erogenous zones can be part of the fun of foreplay prior to intercourse or just the fun of pleasing your partner without intercourse.
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Read full article: 'The Female Erogenous Zone' (7044 bytes more)
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Posted by: UncleTerry on Monday, March 17, 2008 - 01:52 PM
Foreplay
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Erogenous zones are particular body parts of the male and female that is highly sensitive to sexual arousal.
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Read full article: 'Erogenous Zones' (1336 bytes more)
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Posted by: UncleTerry on Friday, March 14, 2008 - 07:20 PM
KinkySex
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Bondage & Discipline - Dominance & Submission - Sadism & Masochism
The Attitude Of Society Towards BDSM:
Society often thinks of BDSM as something immoral, evil or bordering on torture. Many people have the misconception that those who practice it must be real degenerates. In truth, studies have shown BDSM to be practiced by people that are in all types of relationships, and from all walks of life. You have couples in long-term monogamous relationships and you also have those that prefer to have affairs with multiple partners. You have blue-collar workers, students, business and professional people, educators and even members of the clergy.
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Read full article: 'B & D, D & S, S & M' (2411 bytes more)
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Posted by: UncleTerry on Thursday, March 13, 2008 - 01:07 AM
KinkySex
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Have you wondered what the difference is between BDSM, S & M, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, submission, sadism or masochism. Perhaps this information will give you an explanation.
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Read full article: 'BDSM Defined' (1818 bytes more)
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Posted by: UncleTerry on Friday, March 07, 2008 - 10:40 PM
KinkySex
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Among the activities that most folks consider abnormal is that of having multiple sexual partners as with polygamy (bigamy), ménage a troi and swinging. Still, there are a number of individuals that consider this to be normal behavior. A man might say, “There are more women then men so I have to balance things out”. For some age groups he is correct but with others there are more males then females.
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Read full article: 'Multiple Partners Relationships' (6077 bytes more)
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Posted by: UncleTerry on Thursday, March 06, 2008 - 04:52 PM
KinkySex
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Paraphilias include common, distressing and repetitive fantasies, behaviors, or sexual urges focusing on unusual objects, activities, or situations. Paraphilias are sometimes referred to as sexual deviations or perversions. The person with a paraphilia is a paraphiliac, or paraphile. A few of the more common paraphilias are algolagnia, exhibitionism, fetishism, Frotteurism, masochism, pedophilia, sadism, transvestitism, urolagnia and voyeurism.
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Posted by: UncleTerry on Sunday, March 02, 2008 - 11:33 PM
Love&Relationships
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Has the sexual desire in your relationship faded? Would you like to increase the sexual desire of your partner? In dating we rely on every sense of mind and body. The sense of sight, smell, touch, taste and sound. Learn to use your senses during sex as you bring romance back into your relationship.
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Read full article: 'Increasing Sexual Desire' (3703 bytes more)
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Posted by: UncleTerry on Sunday, March 02, 2008 - 02:23 AM
KinkySex
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Fetishism:
People with a fetish experience sexual urges and behaviors that are associated with non-living objects. For example, the object of the fetishist could be an article of female clothing such as a high heel shoe or undergarment. It may be materials such as spandex, fur, leather, rubber or silk. Soiled garments arouse some individuals. A person might have a foot fetish, ear fetish, or in fact it could be a fetish for any part of the human body that arouses an individual but is not considered a normal sexual area such as the breast and genitals.
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Read full article: 'Sexual Behaviors, Paraphilias and Fetishes' (2552 bytes more)
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Posted by: UncleTerry on Friday, February 22, 2008 - 05:54 PM
Love&Relationships
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The following was written by my wife a day or two before she passed on to be with the Lord. While this is not a religious website it has continued to give me comfort and I thought that it may also give comfort to others that have lost a loved one:
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Read full article: 'Visions of Paradise' (2493 bytes more)
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Posted by: UncleTerry on Thursday, February 21, 2008 - 05:00 PM
SexualHealth
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The most annoying and most common male sexual problem is premature ejaculation. This condition is best described as being the inability to delay ejaculation to a point that is mutually desirable for both partners. Some men, especially young men that are still on their training wheels will not be able to control their orgasm upon sexual contact. While common with those just learning to have intercourse it also occurs with men of all ages and experience levels. Not all premature-ejaculation is upon entry. Some males may ejaculate within just a few minutes of copulation. The ejaculation is so rapid that while the male may have climaxed he was unable to satisfy his partner. Premature ejaculation results when the male does not have control of ejaculatory response and is not aware of the erotic sensations that lead to the “point of inevitability”.
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Read full article: 'Premature Ejaculation - Getting Control' (8032 bytes more)
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Posted by: UncleTerry on Thursday, February 21, 2008 - 04:52 PM
AnalSex
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Anal sex can add some variety to a couple’s regular sexual routine. Anal sex can be introduced in a number of ways, such as starting with a finger or tongue during oral sex. Anal sex is usually part of a couple’s sexual activity and not necessarily the main ingredient.
All sexual activity involving the genitals or mouth carry some risk of transmitting a sexually transmitted disease. There is evidence that participants in anal sex are at greater risk of transmitting STDs such as gonorrhea, herpes, hepatitis and HIV the virus that causes AIDS. Therefore as with other forms of sex you must take precaution unless you positively know that your partner is safe.
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Read full article: 'Healthy Anal Sex Practice:' (3307 bytes more)
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Posted by: UncleTerry on Thursday, February 21, 2008 - 04:40 PM
Intercourse
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In this article Terrance Lile (Uncle Terry) discusses how premature ejaculation can be a prelude to great sex. Tips are given for controlling involuntary ejaculation. By practicing simple techniques premature ejaculation and “slam bam thank you mam” will be experiences of the past.
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Read full article: 'Great Sex Often Starts With Premature Ejaculation' (6424 bytes more)
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